by Brenda L. Yoder | Dec 31, 2025 | Life
My daughter-in-law asked if I could repair my son’s baby quilt. It was threadbare from being well-loved by the second generation, my grandson. Of course, I said. I had no idea what I was doing. Remakes and Redos I pale in comparison as a...
by Brenda L. Yoder | Aug 17, 2025 | Faith, For Women, Life, Uncomplicated
Twenty-five years ago today, my mother-in-law died. A few years ago, I opened a devotional she had given me when I was a young mom. A folded slip of paper fell out. Across the top, in her familiar handwriting, were the words: My Daily Prayer. It mirrored the legacy of...
by Brenda L. Yoder | Jul 8, 2025 | Faith, For Women, Parenting
Vulnerable is a word I’m familiar with as a midlife mom. The last few years, everything I was sure about feels like it’s slipping away, like tequila that makes that girl’s clothes fall off. Only it’s not my clothes slipping off, it’s the...
by Brenda L. Yoder | Apr 7, 2025 | Life
“I know all about your town. I read those Amish books,” a sweet older woman said as she sat beside me at a speaking event. “Your last name is Yoder. Are you Amish?” I hate disappointing people, but didn’t she notice my high-heeled boots and sparkly jewelry? “I’m...
by Brenda L. Yoder | Mar 10, 2025 | Coaching, Life
There’s a story called The Velveteen Rabbit. It’s about a stuffed animal that was drug around by a Boy during the magical childhood moments, through sickness and fear. What is Real? The Velveteen Rabbit asked the old, wise Horse in the nursery. The...
by Brenda L. Yoder | Feb 15, 2025 | Fledge, Parenting
I checked my phone in the middle of the night. There were only social media and email notifications. Not what I was looking for. What I was looking for was a “Thanks, Mom, I love you,” or at least an “I love you, too” from my older kids no...
