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The Military Life: Unmet Expectations
Have you ever found yourself somewhere you never thought you'd be? Found yourself living with unmet...
10 Tips for Social Media Safety
Social media is scary – your kids have access to things outside of your control with social media and technology. Kids are vulnerable to online predators and harassing behavior from peers and other adults, unless you follow strict safety rules. The most important...
Dear Friend, I’m Jealous of You
Dear Friend, I'm jealous of you. Not all the time, but this time of year especially. When I go in the stores with all of the things I want, you come to mind. You've got a bigger house with lots of rooms to decorate and have space for the cool things I'd like to have...
So, You’re Thirty-Something
So you're thirty something. It's a great place to be. You're still young, but not-so-young is on the horizon. You're more grounded than ever. But it's weird. You're not that young kid any more. You have kids of your own. And you wonder. You wonder if you're doing...
4 Principles of Spiritual Intimacy for Busy Women
On Saturday, I'll be doing a new retreat--First Things First: Creating Intimacy with God Despite a Busy Life. I'm excited about it. While balancing busyness is important, it doesn't hold the barometer on your relationship with God. Spiritual intimacy with Him has to...
Secular Christianity and My Role In It
"Be still before the Lord, all mankind, because He has roused Himself from His holy dwelling." Zechariah 2:13 NIV It's a beautiful fall morning. Crisp temperatures, bright sunshine, and trees full of color. A reminder of God's beauty. A day you where want some spiced...
The Messy Side of Raising Godly Kids
Here's Part 2 to the post 6 Truths about Raising Godly Kids. But before I get to the formal, polished part, I'm going to share what it looks like in real life. Walked out. As I live it. To avoid real-messy-mom stuff, scroll down to #4. Those of you getting in the mess...
When You Need to Pause in the Crazy World
Blogging continues to change with new devices and ways to communicate with each other. That post from my heart remains stuck in my head because we're in the busiest month of the year. Two varsity sports, with one anticipating a state championship. A daughter traveling...
6 Truths for Raising Godly Kids
Some moments are big, but you're too busy to notice them. Big events get overlooked or under-noticed when you have multiple kids. Like getting engaged on top of a silo, graduating from middle school, going to the mission field or getting baptized. These are recent...
The Risk of Releasing Your Dream
I asked the question on social media--what areas of control do you struggle to give up? The answered varied--parenting, law, and the calendar. More than one responded with giving up dreams for God's will. I was tempted to say, "God's dreams are greater than ours!" But...
How to Obey Your Way to Freedom
Trust and obey, for there's no other way to be happy in Jesus, but to trust and obey. I sang this song to my kids when they were babies. Perhaps because it was simple to remember and fit my Soprano 2 singing range. Or perhaps because I believed it. I'm going to be...
Behind Balance, Busyness and Not Doing It All
I realized I only had two years with all of my kids at home and if something didn’t change, their childhood memories of me would be of an angry, contentious woman. That wasn’t the mom I wanted to be. No mom dreams of being a yeller. New brides don’t anticipate the...