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Risky Business
A conversation between my youngest and his friend, "Where's your mom going tomorrow?" Answer, "She's going to Indy to share her testimony." "That's cool." Testimony: Evidence or proof provided by the existence or appearance of something. I started writing this blog...
Stolen Identity
Being a woman can have the status of "Stolen Identity." It's safe to say I've had an identity crisis ever since becoming a wife and parent, because: I've been a "stay at home mom" during the mommy-wars of the 1990's, raising four babies. I've been a working mom,...
A 5 Point Plan On Raising Boys
Last week, I wrote about Raising Girls. In the midst of writing it, I left my computer to raise boys. Not because they needed laundry washed, but because I needed to address important, uncomfortable things. When God gave me a third son, a huge sense of responsibility...
Precious and Honored
On gray, cold, Fall days like today when my kids were little, I loved to have them sit on my lap under a blanket and read them stories. They would snuggle close to my chest and we'd read book after book while rocking in a rocker. We felt safe, secure, loved, and...
On Raising Girls
My one and only daughter is coming home tomorrow. She's twenty-one. Not a child. Every mother knows in her heart, that adult child is still a toddler with fingers curled around hers. As my Firstborn comes home, well seasoned to college life, my heart weeps with joy...
Images Beyond the Picket Fence
Snapshots from the past days have etched my mind. Simple moments. Yet not so simple. Snapshots of lives beyond the picket fence image. A boy running to the finish line, passing others, winning his first race ever. On the sidelines, his dad just diagnosed with Stage...
God Hasn’t Moved
Nettie Kelsey experienced a mother's heartache in losing one son in a car accident and another son to prison because he was the driver of that car. Hope came when he was also sentenced to drug rehab. He was turning his life around. And then she received another...
Lord, Where Are You?
Lord where are you? We're going this way. Where are you? These were thoughts Nettie Kelsey had as she heard the judge sentence her son to prison for the fatal death of her other son and a friend. For the first part of Nettie's story, click here. Here is the...
Hope in Heartache. A Story.
In June, 2012, I met Nettie Kelsey at a speaking and writing conference in Grand Rapids, Michigan. Both Hoosiers, we connected at the opening session. As I have gotten to know Nettie, I've had the privilege to hear her story. It's one every person needs to hear who...
Hope in Heartache
Nothing inspires like a good story. As a former History teacher, I read history with individuals in mind. Personal stories inside the landmark stories. I have been awestruck, strengthened, and encouraged by individual stories throughout time. People like you and me...
Until We All Come Home – Must Read
Until We All Come Home: A Harrowing Journey, a Mother's Courage, a Race to Freedom by Kim De Blecourt My rating: 5 of 5 stars Honest. Stunning. Raw. Captivating. Challenging. Full of hope. These words describe Kim de Blecourt's book "Until We All Come Home." Kim...
A Place to Belong
Today, I have a devotional on being Rootbound featured at Circle of Friend's ministry page. Please visit it, read it and share it if it ministers to you. Also, to introduce you to the purpose and heart of Circle of Friends Ministry, I am offering my first giveaway. It...